What makes the Lovense Lapis different?

Unlike a conventional strap-on, the Lapis has an internal bulb intended to help the wearer retain and control the toy without a harness. The receiving end provides penetration, while raised textures, a curved shape and three vibration motors deliver stimulation across both sides of the product.

Lovense Lapis at a glance

How does the Lovense Lapis work?

The smaller curved end is designed to be inserted vaginally by the wearer. Its bulb rests internally, while the curved outer section and textured grooves sit against the external vulval and clitoral area.

The longer shaft extends outward for vaginal or anal penetration of the receiving partner. Its rounded tip, raised ribs and internal vibration motors provide sensation while the wearer controls the angle and movement.

The flexible neck can be bent to change the relationship between the wearer end and receiving shaft. This makes it easier to adapt the Lapis to different bodies, positions and preferred penetration angles.

Three independently controlled vibration motors

The Lapis contains three vibration motors distributed across the wearer and receiver sections. The motors can be controlled separately through the Lovense Remote app.

Independent control allows users to change the strength or pattern delivered to different areas. The wearer may prefer stronger internal or external vibration while the receiving partner selects a different intensity along the penetrative shaft.

The three motors can also follow matching patterns when both partners prefer coordinated vibration.

Can the Lapis be used without a harness?

Yes. The smaller end is shaped to help the wearer retain the product internally, which is why it is described as a strapless strap-on.

However, strapless performance will vary between users. Comfort and stability can be affected by anatomy, pelvic-floor control, lubricant, position, angle and the amount of movement being used.

Some wearers may find that the Lapis remains secure without any additional support. Others may prefer the separately available Lovense Harness, particularly during faster movement, longer sessions or positions that place more leverage on the receiving shaft.

Flexible neck and adjustable angle

The neck between the wearer bulb and receiving shaft is flexible. It can be carefully adjusted to change the angle for both partners.

This flexibility is useful because bodies and preferred positions differ. A fixed-angle strap-on may press against the wearer comfortably in one position but pull away in another. The Lapis allows the angle to be adapted before and during use.

The neck should be adjusted gradually rather than forced sharply. The aim is to create comfortable alignment and stable contact for both partners.

Lovense Remote app control

The Lapis can be controlled directly or connected to the Lovense Remote app on a compatible phone or tablet.

App functions listed by Lovense include:

• Close-range Bluetooth control
• Internet-based long-distance control
• Separate control of the three vibration motors
• Unlimited custom vibration patterns
• Adjustable vibration levels
• Music-synchronised vibration
• Sound-activated vibration
• Control by an invited partner

For long-distance use, an invited partner can change the vibration settings through the internet. The person wearing or using the Lapis can retain control permissions and end the remote connection when required.

Long-distance and partner-controlled use

Although the double-ended design is primarily intended for physical partner use, the remote-control functions provide additional options.

A partner can control the vibrations from elsewhere in the room or from another location through the Lovense Remote app. This can be useful during solo exploration, video calls or other consensual long-distance play.

Connection performance will depend on the compatible device, app permissions, Bluetooth connection and internet quality.

Lovense Lapis dimensions

The Lapis measures approximately 230 mm or 9.06 inches from end to end.

• Receiver-side insertable length: approximately 138 mm or 5.43 inches
• Receiver-side maximum width: approximately 41 mm or 1.61 inches
• Wearer-side insertable length: approximately 87 mm or 3.43 inches
• Wearer bulb width: approximately 38.5 mm or 1.52 inches
• Overall product weight: approximately 315 grams or 11 ounces

Who is the Lovense Lapis suited for?

Is the Lovense Lapis suitable for beginners?

The wearer end may be manageable for someone familiar with insertable vibrators or G-spot toys. The flexible neck and adjustable vibration settings allow the intensity and angle to be introduced gradually.

The receiver shaft is approximately 41 mm at its widest point and provides up to 138 mm of insertable length. This may feel substantial for a complete beginner, particularly during anal use.

New users should begin slowly, use plenty of water-based lubricant and choose positions that give the receiving partner control over depth and speed. A smaller product may be more appropriate for someone with no previous penetration experience.

Silicone construction and waterproof design

The Lapis has a smooth silicone exterior that Lovense describes as firm but soft, with a skin-like feel. The raised ribs and grooves are moulded into the surface rather than added as separate attachments.

Its IPX7 waterproof rating allows it to be cleaned under running water and used in wet environments according to the manufacturer’s instructions.

Bluetooth signals can become less reliable when a connected toy is submerged, so physical controls or above-water app control may be more practical during bath or pool use.

Battery life and charging

The Lapis uses a rechargeable lithium-polymer battery. Lovense lists up to 156 minutes of operating time, depending on motor strength, vibration patterns and app use.

A full charge takes approximately 105 minutes. Standby time is listed as up to 120 hours.

The supplied USB charging cable should only be connected when the Lapis and its charging contacts are completely clean and dry.

How to clean the Lovense Lapis

Lovense recommends cleaning the Lapis before and after every use.

1. Turn the Lapis off and disconnect the charging cable.
2. Wash the silicone surface using warm water and mild soap or a suitable sex-toy cleaner.
3. Clean carefully around the raised ribs, external grooves and flexible neck.
4. Rinse thoroughly to remove lubricant, soap and cleaner residue.
5. Dry the product completely with a clean, lint-free cloth.
6. Allow it to air-dry before charging or placing it into storage.
7. Store it in a clean, dry place away from extreme heat or cold.

What lubricant should be used?

A good-quality water-based lubricant is the safest general choice for the silicone Lapis.

Apply lubricant to the wearer bulb, receiving shaft and relevant body areas before insertion. Use more than may be required with a smaller toy, particularly for anal use, and reapply whenever friction develops.

Avoid using silicone lubricant unless Lovense has specifically confirmed compatibility, as some silicone lubricants can affect the surface of silicone toys.

What is included with the Lovense Lapis?

The standard manufacturer listing includes:

• One Lovense Lapis double-ended vibrating strap-on
• One USB charging cable
• One user manual

The Lovense Harness, lubricant and toy cleaner are normally optional accessories unless the current merchant listing identifies a promotional bundle.

Lapis with the optional Lovense Harness

The separately available Lovense Harness is designed to hold the Lapis more firmly against the wearer’s body. It may provide additional control when the wearer-end bulb alone does not offer enough stability.

A harness may be particularly useful for:

• Faster or deeper movement
• Longer sessions
• Positions that place more leverage on the shaft
• Wearers who find it difficult to retain a strapless toy
• Users who want more precise control over angle and depth
• People who cannot or do not wish to insert the wearer bulb

Check the current bundle details carefully, as the harness should not be assumed to be included with the standard Lapis package.

Important considerations before buying

Overall assessment

The Lovense Lapis offers more flexibility and shared stimulation than a basic dildo or conventional strap-on. Its main strengths are its three independently controlled motors, flexible neck, app control and double-ended design.

It is particularly well suited to couples who want the wearer to receive internal and external stimulation while penetrating a partner. Remote control also adds options for a third person, long-distance partner or solo app-controlled use.

The main limitation is that a strapless fit will not be equally secure for every wearer. Buyers who want maximum control should consider the Lapis and Harness bundle rather than assuming that the internal bulb will remain stable in every position.

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